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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Usually a simple explanation for being single is the man is very cheap or "going Dutch" type. Or he's a homebody or has time consuming hobby, or a combination of these

Do you organize nice dates/took women out of town for weekends at hotels? [/quote]

If we’ve been seeing each other for a while, meaning 3~ months+ then yes. Not something that I would usually try for earlier than that unless the connection is out of this world. [/quote]

You can organize a nice first date. But, yes, planning an out-of-town weekend as a first date tells a woman she will get murdered.[/quote]

But waiting for 3 months to suggest a joint weekend trip will only result in other men taking these women for trips. [/quote]

No. My now-DH offered to take me on a plane trip after three months of dating. All of my friends were convinced I was going to be murdered. Building trust takes time, not because you’re a bad guy, but because other men are, and some of them are very good at hiding it.[/quote]

I’m not talking about a plain trip. A weekend together at a local getaway  is reasonable after people start sleeping. It’s not like a reasonable woman  would sleep with a guy if she thinks he’s going to murder her in 2 days [/quote]

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