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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He should  have  said something earlier in November, but frankly you both should have  tested  before sex, period. So, that is on you. What's your plan now? Leave him,  and have your baby without him. Dear- you are now in the same  boat as he is,  getting it the same way he got it. So, what's the plan? You will have to tell others, and meanwhile you had this guy who loves you and you have already been exposed. Did you think  perhaps you also had it and didn't know, seems like no one has tested.

Interestingly enough,  in this day and age, most people have  something, HSV, HPV, etc.

There's ways to manage, and you will just manage. You have already  been exposed,  let your OBGyn know, everything will be ok. This is already old hat. Your behavior now needs some calming  down. [/quote]

She may not have it….[/quote]

Does  not matter. She's been exposed and herpes can rear itself  much later, just like this guy. Neither of them  were responsible. She owns this as well. But going forward,  especially the birth, and  any dating,  she has to say something. This is what  happened to him. He was infected  by someone. There is really no bad  guy here. 
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Um no. There is a test for it-and it’s like 99% accurate after 28 days of exposure. So she is not “exposed and needs to tell people” if she doesn’t actually have it. she doesn’t need to tell people she was exposed by some dude for the rest of her life. Being exposed simply means you need to be tested. You think people go around saying “I was exposed to herpes in 1989” The intelligence level here is really disturbing. Herpes isn’t going to randomly show up in 5 years in someone who doesn’t test positive for the virus. That’s not how it works. [/quote]

You really don’t know what you are talking about. The blood test cannot tell how recently you were infected and herpes can be dormant for a long time. I get like one cold sore every few years. [/quote]
Oh that makes sense. You are infected, probably infected a few others, and are trying to downplay OPs loser bf in all this. Disgusting. [/quote]

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