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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1.5 million so far. They probably need it though with 6 kids to raise and put through college. How much could his wife even work now?[/quote] The youngest child is 4. I think with six kids the goal is for her NOT to work, and it makes a lot of sense when widowed so young with so many young children. I hope they raise all the money they need. By all accounts he was a really great guy and beloved by everyone who knew him.[/quote] +1 I hope they raise enough so [b]she never has to work[/b], and all the costs are taken care of.[/quote] Why exactly?[/quote] NP- why do you need/want her to work? Why wish a harder life on her exactly? In a perfect world anyone in her situation would be better off not working as they are navigating grief and raising young kids UNLESS they find joy and fulfillment in their occupation.[/quote] I agree that when you have 6 kids, it becomes much less possible that you work out of the home. That said, if this was a Black or Hispanic Tv star who had died an early death of cancer whose wife was now asking for money, rather than a blonde, I am pretty sure the tone of comments would be different and that there would be more people questioning why more planning ahead hadn’t been done before doing a GoFundme. [/quote] Maybe there WAS planning ahead. But six kids is a lot of mouths to feed. A lot of bodies to clothe. [/quote] I am sure this was planned well in advance, knowing their financial situation, that they would use this opportunity/attention to solicit donations at the moment it would get peak attention and response. James would likely have thought of it as a last thing he could do for his children’s futures. Perhaps that gave him some peace. I am not going to judge anyone who takes advantage of an opportunity to lessen their financial insecurity. Each person who donated, did so of their own free will and desire to help.[/quote] If he could have purchased adequate life insurance when they had their first kid like the rest of us do. [/quote] What is WRONG with you? [/quote]
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