Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Tweens and Teens
Reply to "I’m tired of my exchange student talking about how easy school is here and how dumb the American kids are. "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]True or not, sounds like he would benefit from learning about the importance of emotional intelligence to be successful in life! Academics alone mean little without being about to navigate social nuances with grace.[/quote] This! OP, tell him that in US people are judged on a different kind of intelligence with the highest ranking going to those that know whose behind to kiss when.[/quote] This is so true. I graduated from gifted school and regularly see the “average” kids with a high ‘social’ IQ as the most successful - including my brother who leads a global company. Business skills are not academic and this kid is really on the wrong path for success. To could just smile and nod, while you watch your ‘stupid’ kids get better jobs and live a better life. I see immigrants here with the same mentality ‘get the accolades’, ‘be the best academically’, ‘study, study, study’ - then they wonder why their kid is a cog in a wheel rather than the leader. Well, they don’t have the skills to lead. I pulled my kid from TJ specifically because of this. The kids were socially inept and despite them befriending each other they wouldn’t survive socially inept society where social/emotional IQ is king.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics