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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, thanks everyone for offering their perspective.
As I think about it, I think nothing is going to happen. First, he is a bit clueless (awkward engineer type). Second, he is just much better looking than me at this point. Third, he is married :) 
I understand him wanting to save money, $2500 worth of hotel stays is a lot. I wouldn’t call him cheap for that, we both come from modest means. 
The only thing that can maybe happen is that he still has that decades old view of me, and he doesn’t sleep with his wife.
I have no idea what his married life is like and I am not going to ask. 
Finally, it’s not a matter of self respect for me.
I don’t want a relationship and I don’t want to run around looking for hookups. This is a “thoroughly vetted” good looking guy who would leave in a week and would be easy to avoid if needed. 
I find it quite unlikely that he would *want* to make a move but would also be too shy. So I’ll just behave like a friend and see what happens.

I wish I could get men’s perspective on here but oh well. [/quote]

How about find hookups like a normal adult woman. Why are you so concerned about avoiding men you’ve hooked up with when they did the same thing you did?[/quote]

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