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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again.

To answer a few questions:

- We’ve discussed children, and he has stated that he wants three children from the start, so we could definitely work on a compromise.

- Regarding his dating history, his last relationship lasted for five years (ages 23-28), until he broke with her, because she cheated and was being unfaithful. He took a break for a couple years, until we met and started dating. He convinced me to move in with him. I didn’t really want too since we were dating and my parents didn’t want me to either yet, even though they like him and think I should stay, but I chose to.

- I work and have additional financial support from my parents, who also assist my siblings that have their own families and careers, so no I’m not financially dependent on him.

I’m planning on having a conservation and talking to him about this, because I want confirmation of his true feelings about marriage, without signaling that I’m thinking of leaving if he isn’t ready soon.

I’ll update on how it goes.
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You have your answer right there. His last serious relationship ended after 5 years. You're at 3. Presumably at the three year mark in that relationship he thought things were going to work out. But they didn't.[/quote]

Huh? I got something totally different out of that. Sounds like his ex got tired of waiting and found something else [/quote]

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