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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Above poster is probably one of these types and a big thing I notice about them is they have no insecurity or humility whatsoever. Everything in their lives is perfect. Perfect husband, perfect kids, perfect house. If your life isn't perfect, you went wrong somewhere and you bring negative energy.
I think of it as being real! Nobody is in jail or anything but my family and house are far from perfect.[/quote]

Everyone has insecurities. [/quote]

No, they truly don't.
I was attempting friendship with one of these a while back and every conversation collapsed because of this.
"Mikeys not very athletic so I'm trying to encourage x and y. He said recess has been kind of a struggle." "That's strange. All my kids are super sporty, because we encourage being active in our family." I literally just said that we encourage that too!
"I'm going crazy with my kitchen remodel, the contractor did x and y." "I'm so glad we made sure to buy a beautifully maintained house so we never had to worry about that. My kitchen is amazing."[/quote]

If they weren't insecure, they wouldn't feel the need to 'one-up' everything you say. It's their coping mechanism.[/quote]
Preach! 🙌🏾[/quote]

They are not one-upping, it is called having a conversation, a back and forth. Yes, we know narcissist don't like being questioned, like to have the last word, want everyone to share their worldview, but this is not going to happen. [/quote]

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