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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have run in a variety of circles/SES levels in my life. I encounter these types in all of those places. I can ID them immediately. They don't bother me too much though maybe because I have an RBF and I give of no vibes of needing anything and/or I just don't care what they do or think.[/quote]

This is my goal. I want to just not care. I want to be able to respond to someone who is like "you know you should really be doing XYZ, like me -- here, let me help" with some sarcastic remark or just a dead stare and to walk away.

I was raised to be such a people pleaser and am really trying to undo that training but it's hard. I think I'm such a target for these women. I have finally figured out enough to recognize what they are doing and at least understand I don't want to be around it. But I still struggle to stand up to it.

I want to have enough comfort and confidence in myself to flex some power at them when they try to dominate in this way, so they learn to leave me alone. Right now I still lack the confidence. Argh. It's hard.[/quote]

Oh, you want to be an ahole.  Got it![/quote]

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