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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.[/quote]

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.[/quote]

That’s gross.
75 total!?  5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that! [/quote]

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited. [/quote]

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me. [/quote]

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