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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had no idea so many women are so triggered by another woman asking where their dress is from. Is this an east coast thing? I guess some women are really competitive with other women instead of helpful and open. That is so unfortunate. This may be a really good way to test who is a good friend or not. Ask where their dress is from and if they answer, you have a genuine, caring person. If they don’t, you have a pretentious, competitive weirdo. Choose which type of friend you prefer.  [/quote]

Sorry you just found out how rude and obnoxious your nosy questions are.[/quote]

Can you please explain why this is thought of as rude and obnoxious?

Serious question.

Is it just because you don’t want someone copy?  Or do you feel it reveals how much money you spend on clothes (which of course doesn’t necessarily correlate to how much money you have)?
Other?[/quote]

Because there can be a wrong answer. Maybe I don’t shop at a cool store, or maybe I spent too much or too little and now you’re judging for it. And the askers are definitely judging as demonstrated here. It’s a party, just relax and make polite conversation with people you don’t know.[/quote]

It's because she's insecure and likely very judgmental since she assumes everyone else is judging her, when in reality they don't care enough about her to bother and are just making conversation.[/quote]

Ok. If that’s your best attempt at making conversation you should probably practice more. Do you often social anxiety?[/quote]

You should stop day drinking as a hobby and try something more productive.   :lol: [/quote]

Multiple people have said it’s weird, don’t do it, yet there’s you missing social cues thinking everyone else is the problem.[/quote]

And multiple people have said it's not weird. It's really not that big of a deal either way.[/quote]

Ok so don’t be like op and get hurt if people blow off your question because now you know.[/quote]

I actually don't ask questions like this but have no issue if someone asked about what I am wearing. [/quote]

You might be in the wrong if you ask, but you won't ever be wrong if you don't ask at all. And what's the point? Are people running out to Anthropologie to buy that dress they just heard about? What if you run into the person again wearing that dress? Awkward.[/quote]

Funny how running into the person wearing the same LV bag is never awkward.  [/quote]

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