Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Wife won’t sleep with me"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd like to know how much each of these people earn, and how much they each brought into the marriage (assets/debts). If one spouse is providing the bulk of the household income, their contribution is the money that pays for that toilet and the water that flows through it. I'm a working mom and I always have been except for a few months of maternity leave. I earned less, and I carried more of the load at home. I don't see how this is considered unfair. If that's unfair, then it's also a problem that she isn't earning 50% of their family's income to match his financial contribution. You can't have it both ways. [/quote] This. Work is work. You don’t need to scrub toilets to contribute. If it’s that big of a deal why wait 10 years to pay someone else to do it.[/quote] You make the mess in a family home and are not a toddler - poop smears, garbage everywhere, crumbs galore, dirty dishes - you arrange to clean it or fix it. Find the vendor, set their schedule, pay them. Or go live with your Mommy. [/quote] It’s ok to not like your husband and to want something else. You don’t need to over blow crumbs and dirty dishes. If you’re so bothered, hire someone, not necessarily for him, but for your kids so they grow up in a clean environment. The passive aggressive attitude is getting you nowhere.[/quote] Imagine being so vile that you come with these excuses to blame someone else because you are unwilling to clean up your own crumbs and poop. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics