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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s a loan under her name. Paying 1000k monthly while I have other student loans plus my husbands loans + daycare is a lot. I’m mad because of the way she handled it. She could have sit down with us and explained the situation- instead I get a random text with the log in for the loan telling me to pay next month.[/quote]

You can be upset about how she asked, but those loans are for YOUR school.  YOU should pay them, not your mom.  Yes, daycare and your husband's loans are probably a lot.  Maybe you should have waited to have kids until all YOUR loans were paid.  [/quote]

They are not her loans. Not sure why you keep capitalizing the word your. Yelling doesn’t change reality. These loans aren’t hers.[/quote]
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+2 Having one crazy poster repeating the same thing over and over doesn't make it so.  [b]Not the OP's loan.  Not the OP's credit score. Not the OP's decision to take the loan.  Not the OP's responsibility.  [/b]
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Not the OP's credit score. Not the OP's decision to take the loan.  Not the OP's responsibility.  Not the OP's mom. No, wait a minute, it IS the OP's mom. So how is she going to feel when her mom's house goes into foreclosure and she has nowhere to live? Still not OP's problem? heartless.

OP, just call her up and talk to her about it. Ask how much she can pay per month and see how much you can pay. Why are you paying yoru DH's loan payments? I guess his parents didn't help him the way your mom helped you....[/quote]

Is she going to pay the mortgage, too? Because it's not going to end here. And OP has made extremely clear that her mother is unwilling to talk honestly about her financial situation. [/quote]

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