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But that's my point. Not being able to talk about sex...is childish. It's not wrong, it's certainly not uncommon, but it's not the way to increase intimacy in a marriage. That was my only point. Not to accuse you of being childish, but pointing out that these issues are complex and drill down to a lot more than simply wanting to get off, or a physical need, or even a need for affection and connection. And that probably many couples have these issues. I mean, google marriage counselors in your area. You will find hundreds. These folks are in business for a reason, and if every married couple was having great sex, a lot of other crap would slide. [/quote]

No, I get it. And you're right that I wasn't being mature when I was inhibited about talking about sex with my wife. However, I was trying to clarify that I was being critical of some of the other comments in this thread that seemed to indicate OP's desire for sex with his wife was somehow immature or childish and that he needed to grow up.

As far as my personal situation, once I figured out that my inhibitions about talking about sex were part of the problem, I got over them.  Talking helped. [/quote]

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