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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This study shows that however people begin playing with elements of BDSM, they often find it sufficiently powerful, seductive, and compelling to continue that kind of erotic play.[/quote]

It shows decisively that they got into largely because of porn usage. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/202406/why-do-people-begin-exploring-bdsm[/quote]

And? Maybe porn usage within healthy limits is not as harmful as you claim, if it results in people coming to sex practices that largely improve their sex life . Some couples watch it together

There are many more harmful things - stealing, alcohol drugs etc that should concern the humanity

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And the point is that you've been denying that BDSM has ties to porn addiction to several stages now. As another poster pointed out, you also want to position BDSM as some transgressive or edgy things when it's really just LARPing and role playing the exact same dynamic that you see in most porn films. There is nothing bold or unique or independent, it's two people acting out a scene from a movie because they were sexually conditioned to get excited by that. So yes, BDSM is absolutely a red flag for a porn addiction and very embarrassing as a result. [/quote]

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