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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How many people readily admit their affairs when asked?[/quote]

Not my exDH!  He had multiple opportunities to tell me the truth, on his own and with the support of a therapist.  He chose instead to double down and gaslight me.

It was pretty unbelievable to watch as I had receipts the whole time and was watching him in real time because he was using my laptop and I paid for the joint family cell plan.

I'm not sure which turned me off more - the infidelity itself, how stupid he was in carrying it out, or how stupid he must have thought I was that he thought I would believe his lies.

I have never felt such a sense of relief as the day I finally got him to leave the house, perhaps next best was when our youngest kid turned 18 and I was able to completely grey rock him.

Cheaters are toxic, and living with them gives the victim spouse a kind of chronic PTSD. Kids are also affected, because the disengagement and hostility affects them too.

Be kind to yourself and focus on creating a safe and healthy living environment for yourself and your kids. [/quote]

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