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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For my dh, these facts were a midlife crisis and not an affair. Had been super happy for 20 years, great dad and husband. Started as depressed then shifted into anger at me. Then covid happened and suddenly he’s  telling me that he hadn’t actually been happy for those 20 years but rather I had been an emotionally abusive wife.  Its hard because no one is perfect, and I wanted to save my marriage, so when he’s clearly depressed and saying that my complaining about him taking too long to cook dinner is emotional abuse, it puts me in an impossible situation where I pretty much had to agree with him.  He barely had anything to do with me and ds for the first year of covid- so unlike him. I knew it wasn’t an affair because we both worked from home before and during covid, and pretty much knew what each other was doing all the time. Which was a big part of the trigger for his depression, honestly. We both wanted to have a better marriage and both committed to working harder, and it came pretty easily for us once we both agreed to put the effort in. But definitely depression and midlife crisis for us; and not affair [/quote]

Or, his affair had to end because of COVID and he took it out on you. [/quote]

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