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[quote=Anonymous]
OP - Seems like it may be time to focus on what is best for you and your children by getting individual therapy for  yourself.  A good therapist will help you to get back your balance as a person and figure out what might be the best path forward.  Also  if you are not yet ready to see a lawyer, then get to understand your finances and copy all important legal and financial documents. Hopefully, your name is on at least the deed to the house if not the mortgage, too.  Also hopefully your name is on all bank and investment accounts so that one can't be shut out.  Getting an understanding of what likely 50% of shared marital assets would be as well as 50/50 shared custody will be a first step.  Then go to a lawyer to understand your rights, but do some research on getting connected to the right lawyer who will listen to you and act in  your behalf.

If  you feel your husband is not in a mental state to share custody, which is the usual breakdown today, then you need to hire a lawyer who will be willing to go to bat to get you what you feel is needed in this area.  Document all  you can in his change of behaviors and functioning levels.  But again, your kids are relatively still young and this is a reality of divorce today.    Number one step is to get "you" back to a good place.  If  you work, make sure  you are putting your time into your job as this will be important in providing for the children if DH is truly on a downward trend.[/quote]

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