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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated [/quote]

This is not worse than cheating.  The cheating spouses caused the problems.  If OP needed to unburden, then good for OP.

If you don't want people to find out about your bad acts, don't do them![/quote]

No! Sex is a private act between consenting adults married or not. Intentionally causing a divorce that might never happen if you did not open your mouth is worse. Intentionally involving kids. I have never cheated. When I was married, I would not have wanted to know. [b]Marriage is much bigger than just sex. The problem is people like you think sex is the most important thing. No, kids' stability and finances are[/b]. Don't cheat but also don't get involved in other people's marriages that potentially makes you the impetus to harm kids. Research says most affairs are never discovered. [/quote]

Who are you to decide what is important in someone else’s marriage? How narcissistic can you be to assume everyone thinks like you?

OP gave the other cheated on spouse facts. That’s it. It is up to that spouse whether this is divorce worthy or not. There are many people who would not be okay spending potentially decades of their lives being duped by a partner and potentially exposed to diseases. Or to possibly strung along in the dark until kids are off to college only to be blindsided that their spouse is leaving them for an AP. [/quote]

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