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Reply to "What should college dc be told about our divorce? DH is cheating and leaving to pursue a relationship with his mistress."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]DH is really spoiling for a blowup with me and I feel like he just used our kid as a pawn in his emotional war. But I'm not here to fight. I'm here to get out of this mess without losing my mind and suppporting our kid.[/quote] OP this smart. You are correct that your DH is spoiling for a blow up. It's much easier for him if you're angry and irrational; he needs glue to make all the pieces of his narrative stick together. And while I'm sure you're justifiably angry, don't give this to him. We can be remarkably steely and calm when we are focused on our kids, which it sounds like you are, and your DC will need. Good for you and DC. Let your H spin out into the ether....it all comes down eventually. [/quote] +1[/quote]
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