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Reply to "What should college dc be told about our divorce? DH is cheating and leaving to pursue a relationship with his mistress."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should keep the details to yourself and just tell the kid mom and dad can’t be married to each other anymore. Do not drag your kid into your drama.[/quote] "Mom and dad can't be married anymore" is what you tell a toddler, not a college student. I understand wanting to keep your kid focused on their studies but don't patronize them, that would be angering for a long while. It will hurt but college kids are old enough to be respected with basic honesty. You don't need to go into detail but dont leave out the big reason! The caution is not in the facts but in being careful to not bring them into your internal mental struggles as that can be suffocating. Don't lean on them for therapy but dont leave them in the dark.[/quote]
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