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Because people and relationships are complicated?

I don’t think men who are happy in their marriages marry the mistress. That’s not a judgement error, that’s a man totally disengaged from the marriage and moving on.

And, sorry, some women make it an easy choice for them to do that.[/quote]

Take this absolute trash opinion somewhere else. Men who cheat have already proved that they totally lack integrity. Once caught, they can’t take that they blew up their world and their family’s for absolutely nothing (and that’s what a mistress is), so they double down to preserve their own self image and justify their crap decision-making.[/quote]

I don’t think so.  There are some completely hysterical betrayed women here, and it’s sort of obvious that they exhausted and alienated their spouse and are lashing out at randoms on the internet.[/quote]

I'm not sure where you got college Freshman. At least dc is a junior with an established friend group. Reflecting over the weekend I'm mainly just pissed about the way this has been handled and dh's total disregard for our kid's mental wellbeing. I really feel like *I* will be ok. I WISH the divorce decision would have been a conversation and not an edict.  He could have had his divorce without going scorched earth. I'm not the one being hysterical in this dynamic but there are people on this thread who want to lash out at me. Whatever. The blows aren't landing.

I don't think a man who blows up his child's world and compromises his 1st year at college is the "not hysterical one".. sure women who get blind sided 30 years into a marriage take a while to adjust and at 1st are emotional... but you have to be complete trash to do with the H in this scenario is doing. [/quote][/quote]

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