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[quote=Anonymous]This is why it’s better to divide the tasks. I cook because I like cooking. DH does trash because I hate it and he doesn’t mind. Ditto car stuff (one shared car). I wanted a dog so I walk the dog and do the vet. I am mostly in charge of kid stuff except a few dr specialists he is in charge of. I have no idea when my kids see the dentist - that’s DH’s job. And he does it. If we didn’t assign these things 100%, we’d fight about them; but since we know it’s our sole responsibility, we both do our tasks. We each do our own laundry so if he lets his sit forever I don’t care. I dump it on the bed to make room for my laundry and the kids’ laundry. I am in charge of kids’ laundry but he will willingly help if I ask and that works fine. I don’t mind doing 60 to his 40 so long as I do it on my more exacting terms, and I do. He’d serve pizza bagels or spaghetti every night if he were the cook; I am not ok with that, but he will eat anything I make. So it works out. [/quote]
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