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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant. [/quote]

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.[/quote]

The odds are good he was making a joke. Lighten up.

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy[/quote]

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets![/quote]

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals. [/quote]

Women with cameltoes certainly are.[/quote]

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free. [/quote]

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is. [/quote]

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?[/quote]

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police. [/quote]

"Constable! That man is displaying his....[i]shame[/i]!"

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Clearly you’re not a woman who has ever had a man display his erection to you in a public place you thought it was safe. I’m not going to normalize men showing their erections in public.

That’s vastly different from a sweaty man’s genitalia being faintly visible in his jogging shorts. Just as how a woman accidentally wearing yoga pants that show the shape of her genitalia is different from the woman who intentionally wear super tight leggings to make a super prominent cameltoe that displays every contour. That is a real thing - go to M Street, Tysons, anywhere young and dumb and horny people congregate - and it’s as tacky and inappropriate - but not as menacing- as a man trying to make you look at his erection.

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I'm a woman who took the NYC subways/buses growing up. You seriously think I've never seen strangers with b*ners?  Unless they are attempting to rub up against you with it, then DON'T LOOK. It's what they want if they're looking at you and playing with it. I've moved to a different car. You seriously think the cops have time for nonsense over a guy simply getting an erection? If he's actually playing with it, then you consider calling the cops. Again, I would just move away as I have several times in my life. It's disgusting, but I'm not waiting around for the cops to show up over it.[/quote]

Ew. Talk about weird ass victim blaming. [/quote]

What victim blaming? I've not been on this board as long as many of you, but what I've noticed above all else is that some of you really have no clue about how the world actually works. You just look for any opportunity to be offended and just ignore context. Who in the hell is standing there calling the police if they see a guy w/ a hard-on? You have time for that nonsense?

If a guy in public has a hard-on through his clothing, that is not the same as someone actively masturbating on the train. The person to whom I responded is saying to call the police if a guy has a hard-on...not that he's actively touching himself. Do you not understand the difference? Good God, many of you have lived sheltered lives. [/quote]

Man here.  You just taught me that I’ve been wrong all these years I’ve been calling the cops on women who have erect nipples in public.  Damn if you don’t learn something new everyday.[/quote]

Man here. I don’t call the cops, I just make a citizens arrest starting with a body frisk. [/quote]

Just because a woman is scantily clad doesn't mean you have any right to touch her.[/quote][/quote]

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