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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - I have the same age difference in my marriage. Our second kid was born when DH was your age, If you’re going to do this, hurry up. You’ll be fine. [/quote]

OP here thank you for sharing your experience. I'm 46 now and I won't make her wait. If our relationship continues the way it's been in the next 6 months I'll def propose to her. She is everything my ex wife wasn't. [/quote]

You just posted that you gave “no intention to remarry” but if she wants to get married and have a kid you would.

Say what now? That’s not having no intention to marry dude.

And now you’re saying you’ll propose in 6 months!!

lol. Men. [/quote]

Lol I am a man and I can kind of relate. When I met my now wife I proposed to her 6 months after we met. I was only 26 and I def didn't want to get married before I met her. We had things in common and a shared vision etc but I was really more about me morphing into what she liked and what she envisioned our future together to be like. I think women do more in depth thinking and don't rush to make big life decisions like marriage. I don't necessarily think men are stupid I see it more like men being impulsive and accepting whatever fallout that come out bad decisions they make.[/quote]

I don't think you are wrong about relationships that begin in one's teens and twenties, but OP is in his forties! By that time, I would expect a man to have some sense of what he wants his personal life to look like. OP is clearly bouncing around with zero thought. He literally just met this woman and he's already thinking about proposing and having kids. That goes beyond the maturity gap between young adult men and young women, and suggests that he is in the "limerence" period of infatuation. That is a terrible head space in which to be making choices like whether or not to bring an entire child into the world. [/quote]

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