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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honest question. [b]Is it fair to say that older women in particular have issues with men who choose to remarry with a younger woman?[/b]I don't think OP because marriage sucks anyways. But I went through all the responses and there is clearly an undertone that somehow older men such as OP should not be going younger. I get in that women past a certain age are not as desirable as they once were. Men no longer turn their heads when they pass guy. Sometimes they are invisible in public spaces where they once you used to grab so much wanted and unwanted attention. [/quote]

The reality is the most older guys with kids aren’t as attractive to the childfree younger woman in her mid twenties to late 30’s IF he isn’t willing to marry and start a family with her.  If he doesn’t want to have more children there are plenty of women he could date with the biggest pool being women that already have kids and don’t want any more and women beyond the typical child bearing age.  The mid-twenties to late 30’s women that doesn’t want kids typically wants a guy that doesn’t already have kids.

If a guy always wanted more kids with the first wife and either she was like no way or the relationship ended before that could happen that’s one thing but 90% of the time, that’s not what’s happening here. Usually the guy doesn’t really want more kids, he just wants the type of woman he can get IF he is willing to have more kids.  And if he is willing to take on all the time and money and delayed retirement etc. to have a kid that on his own he didn’t really want but is doing to keep/get the 2nd wife, what are the chances he will put the same type of energy into parenting his current children especially if it rocks the boat with the 2nd wife?  [/quote]

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