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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he’s now a doctor, why can’t he pay his own debt? Under no circumstances should she use her premarital assets to pay his premarital debt. That he would even ask that is a red flag that he’s exploiting her. As they are now married, they can tackle the medical school debt with current joint income including largely his income. My SIL had an insane amount of law school debt, so she worked in big law for 4 years and paid it all off before having kids and moving to a part time role. My default, brother’s income covered more of their living expenses during the period of time she was paying off her loan. [/quote] Bottom line is that your brother paid off the debt indirectly. He used his income to pay for the family’s living expenses while she used her for her personal expenses including her debt. Your brother could have said. I pay your debt and you use your money for the family’s expenses. The result is the same. [/quote]
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