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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're out of your mind.  He has a good job.  He has a very particular job, and if OP wanted your life of being married to a career driven provider with 0 support she should've married one of those men.  She chose her profession and probably levered up their lifestyle all by herself, to which he just went along with, and is now resentful towards him that they can't afford their 1M+ plus house because she now wants to be a SAHM.

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She suggested downsizing and living in their rental property and he refused. [/quote]

If their rental property is earning them actual income profit, and has a decent amount of equity, it may be best for them long term to hold on to it as a rental, sell their current property, and rent themselves. I’d be looking into getting a proper FA to look into what their best choices are, even if it will only be a few years. Downsizing doesn’t mean burning the financial bridges behind you.

Although OP feels likes her husband’s job is a “hobby”, it likely comes with a fair amount of other perks. I know a lot of people in academia who move around the world, or get other perks like reduced tuition for their kids. You don’t have to just look at moving into your rental.

I’m getting the impression that OP just wants what she wants.her baby looking for her when she’s there but dad is, isn’t a good idea to give up everything. That’s a three year old. I also don’t think of academia as a hobby job. Research, teaching, writing are valid things that aren’t always rewarded professionally, but help civilization as a whole.

If the previous threads are really OP, and I suspect they are, there’s a lot of therapy that’s needed.

In any case, this is such an example of a DCUM thread. Academia isn’t a “hobby” career - in many places, the academic would be a highly desirable partner. [/quote]

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