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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're out of your mind.  He has a good job.  He has a very particular job, and if OP wanted your life of being married to a career driven provider with 0 support she should've married one of those men.  She chose her profession and probably levered up their lifestyle all by herself, to which he just went along with, and is now resentful towards him that they can't afford their 1M+ plus house because she now wants to be a SAHM.

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She suggested downsizing and living in their rental property and he refused. [/quote]

If she suggested downsizing as passive aggressively as she’s handling the direct deposit he may have no idea what she wants.

I had a roommate once who didn’t drive and it took me months to figure out when she asked me “do you want to go to the grocery store?” She really meant “can you take me to the grocery store?”

I have a really hard time believing OP has had an open, honest conversation with her DH about how the stress of her job is impacting her and how it is important to her to downsize to relieve some of the pressure she’s feeling and let her spend more time with the kids, and that he knows how she feels and just doesn’t care. [/quote]

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