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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]80 a year is not at all unreasonable for her.[/quote]

Does this mean 80 partners per year?  $80k annual salary?  $80k salary requirement for her partners?

[quote=Anonymous]she is from Brazil, and ... dating almost exclusively black guys. ... She is from a lower SE class[/quote]

She need to focus her search on eligible men.  Men need a certain income to get married and support a family.  There are plenty of affluent African-Americans in D.C.  But on average, incomes and marriage rates are lower in that community.  Also, an immigrant might have less in common with Americans.  She is indiscriminately dating men in a large age range and needs to screen better.

[quote=Anonymous]And once men realize they're nothing special, they check out immediately.  ... she is hooking up with guys too soon.[/quote]

Men can tell when a woman is easy and not selective.  She is reasonably pretty and fit, and gets a lot of dates.  Men see her phone is blowing up with texts and dick pics, and hear her stories of men she dated.  She is not invested and committed to any of these dates.  When men realize that they are part of a large crowd of casual partners, then they opportunistically "hit it and quit it".

She should screen better on age/occupation and relationship history.  She needs online men to write more or phone to get this information and prove they are interested.  She should wait until the third date for sex.  This will weed out many men.   If she is going to have sex, then she should do it with relationship potential.[/quote]

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