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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The responses on here are just horrible. The judgment and cruelty are the reason people are leaving this site. OP, I’m sorry your daughter is going through this and you are overwhelmed. I agree she needs something by more than punishment - it seems like she is acting out to get attention. If you can afford it, individual and family therapy will help. Do you have any family member who can help with respite care for your SN kid? And for the other posters - I wouldn’t be so holier than thou. This can happen even to kids of involved, loving parents. It is insane to call for a CPS investigation or removal from the home. Have any of you ever been involved in the foster care system? Because it is deeply traumatizing to kids.[/quote] Yea, reading these comments is literally making me want to quit DCUM for good. OP came here for help and the judgment and nasty comments are unreal. OP, I have not dealt with this with my own kids (yet?) but my middle school friends were heading down a bad path and my parents made me go to private school for high school and it was the best thing for me. New friend group, not as “fast.” [/quote] I think there has been a horrible uptick in meanness, and frankly it sounds like high school mean girls have started to take over the site. It is truly awful.[/quote]
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