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[quote=Anonymous]OP, good luck tomorrow. Since you may be nursing, maybe don’t do ketamine, but EMDR could help a lot. Ask around for recommendations and Google if you need more information on the topic. It has helped a lot of people I know. I think it is great that he won’t drink, will watch the kids while you go to counseling, and will go to couples counseling. If he again asks what he can do, just say how important it is that he believe you and understand/validate your response. Also, at some point see if he’s addicted to porn, that is, ask him. Allow him to watch the kids so you can get more rest, go for walks, get massages, go to yoga, do things that make you feel okay/happy. You’ll be okay. It happened to me and I’m okay now. And it sucks that you are dealing with this with a baby! So, maybe allow him to validate that as well! Thinking of you. Ignore the negative on here. Hang in there!! [/quote]
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