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[quote=Anonymous]For me, I majored in dating. I was married a year after college. A lot of my friends from college aren't married and we are in our mid-30s. They are too picky. I had a type but I was open to other people.  I think the difference between me and them is that I'm more flexible. I have an easygoing personality and I had a lot of fun with my dates but I weeded out men right away if I thought they couldn't be serious. I only dated guys I could sense adored me. I dated older guys. My now husband is 6 years older. By my junior year, I knew I wanted the option to be a sahm. Most of my friends thought I was crazy for thinking that far ahead but it worked out.  I work part-time and am a stay-at-home mom the other 5 days. Personality is very important and I think when we are younger we don't always factor that in. I remember accidentally overhearing conversations from "friends" about being confused about why my boyfriend was so hot and with me for so long (3 years) because I am average-looking. I broke up with the hot guy and he was model hot because he made fun of a stay-at-home mom who was walking her newborn. He said something like some women like to do nothing all day. I explained how I would like to be a stay at home mom and he told me he can't provide that and I should look for a med student. I ended up with a doctor but a doctor of statistics. He is not as "hot" but he's cute and nice.  His income ended up being a lot more than hot boyfriend. That boyfriend married a below-average-looking woman who came from money. Some people just know what they want and are persistent about finding it. I didn't have a lot of intimate relationships before marriage. For me that was reserved for someone I was very serious about.

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