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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Late 40s. 2x a month. We were down to 4-6x a year, and often months with nothing when we were early 40s. Almost divorced over it. Not exactly sure why things improved but they did. I am here to offer some hope that things can improve. I was one of those people on this board who was convinced a dead bedroom was irreversible.[/quote]

Did something else change?  Kids get older?  Less stress at work?  Just more time to relax?

It became a big point of contention and is now a lot better for us, but it was a “big deal” and there was a lot of discussion/navigating the difference.  I have a very high libido and want it almost every day, he thinks that’s insane.[/quote]

Not the pp. We also have a libido imbalance. We’re in our 50s with grown children and jobs, both out of the house. We’re having intense sex 2 to 3 times per week. We have it a variety of ways, sometimes with role playing. She’s vocal and reaches orgasm fairly fast. She gets into it. 
Despite being seemingly satisfied sexually, she has hardly any underlying sex drive. The next day she can take it or leave it, whereas I always want it. She says I have to initiate. 
Is anyone else like this? Sexually responsive but not necessarily sexually driven. [/quote]

If you're in your 50s and having sex like that 2-3 times per week she has an outstanding libido relative to other women her age.

It seems many women go beyond just not needing sex - they put effort into avoiding it. [/quote]

Yea because have you seen the majority of 50 year old men? Would you want to have sex with them??[/quote]

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