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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What parts don't add up?  Maybe I could help. [/quote]

I don't think he was completely truthful about his extent of his feelings for her. And maybe that's okay, since feelings fade, and love is about actions, day after day. Does it really matter if he felt one way about her for a year? He would have felt differently about her if they had pursued a relationship in the real world. Relationships are hard, especially at our stage of life, with kids and growing careers, financial realities, aging parents, and so forth. And I can tell already his feelings have changed, since he chose us over them. So maybe it doesn't matter.

Also, there were times he would run errands at night, and while I believe they did not get physical, wondering if he talked to her during those errands (he actually would come back with stuff, so pretty sure he was actually running the errands). He claims they never talked feelings, sex, etc., and I'm not sure if I believe him.

And I'm not sure I believe the extent of the relationship, in that even though it wasn't physical, maybe they got together more than he said, met for a drink or went on a run or whatever. That type of thing. There are times that are unaccounted for. 
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