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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not the AP's responsibility to keep a marriage together or prevent it from falling apart. That responsibility lies entirely with the married couple.[/quote]

Nobody is asking the AP to keep the marriage together. The AP serves as a safety net for the person doing the leaving instead of working out what is wrong in the marriage. In my case, the AP was a friend of mine who got to know my kids and hung out at friend gatherings from time to time.  This AP had access to an inside world that allowed trust and familiarity.  To do what she did was ruthless. My ex is fully responsible as well. This is not something that just affects the spouse. These affairs have ripple effects through the family. My DD now has no relationship with her father and my DS has limits his visits to dinners.  Neither the AP or my Ex have even spoken to the kids about their relationship and its been 2 years.  The family was destroyed by two people who have no accountability or remorse.

Your comment is really over simplistic and contemptable.[/quote]

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