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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My question is, when it’s a serial adulterer, is the betrayed spouse equally mad at each successive AP or does it finally become the cheating spouses fault then? [/quote]

My question is why anyone thinks a betrayed spouse is not seething with rage and absolutely pissed at their spouse when they find out. The narrative some OW are trying to keep going “the woes me- why am I getting all the blame” blah blah crap almost seems like a severe need to stay relevant in the drama they crave and in AP’s life. I can tell you in the vast majority of cases nobody is thinking of you much after or even gives two sh@ts about you. You just aren’t relevant. [/quote]

What about the cases where the husband ends up with the OW?[/quote]

And sometimes, it's a better relationship. One of my older relatives got involved with a married man who did divorce his wife, and they've been married more than 50 years now, very happily. [/quote]

How lovely!  And the only parties who had to get hurt were the hapless spouse(a) and potentials children.  Always worth it for true wuv!![/quote]

Which is why betrayed spouses should be taking steps to protect themselves before taking back cheaters (postnup and vasectomy). Focus on getting the best financial settlement available and the most security for your children, which is within your control, instead of perseverating your rage at someone who owes you much less than your spouse does.[/quote]

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