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[quote=Anonymous]Don't be ashamed, OP, but good for you for being honest, even if it wasn't necessary, and for realizing that his behavior is a red flag. In the past when I was dating I disclosed HPV to partners and no one was ever bothered by it, including the man that later became my husband. I'm now divorced and have not disclosed, but I haven't had any symptoms or abnormal paps (I had a high risk strain) for over 20 years, so I'm guessing that my body cleared it or it's dormant. I don't feel bad. I'm fairly certain that some of the men, if not most, that I've been intimate with after divorce have been carriers, but that's a risk I'm willing to take. I don't take risks with others STIs, I do insist on tests for those, but honestly, even STIs (aside from herpes, which usually isn't included in panels), can be treated and shouldn't be a dealbreaker imo.

You have no reason to be ashamed. Would you judge another woman who found out she had HPV? I think not. So treat yourself as you would a friend. [/quote]

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