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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I am sticking to my guns because I'm in the right. I am the mother and I should have more control over what's happening in my family.

I gave the background info because I think it's important to point out that DH isn't a saint. [b]He's decided to become a drunk[/b] and then announced it and left me with the choice of being a single mother or putting up with his addiction. I'm still angry thinking about it.

I know what he does and yes it's fine but there is so much energy I spend thinking about his being an addict, the kids, my terrible job and if I'm honest...I would leave if it didn't make me look like a terrible person. It's all exhausting and I was the happiest in my life before all of this. When I was single and just had a dog and did whatever I wanted.

So, I'm staying but I want to have a say here. What's wrong with that.[/quote]

FFS. You know nothing about addiction. Also, he's sober now, for a few years, which is incredible. I honestly don't know how he can stand not to drink given that he lives with you. [/quote]

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