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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems like you don't want to host the cousins because your SIL got free childcare from your mom. You sound like you count everything and keep score. [/quote] Yeah; the inclusion of all those details was really weird, and makes it clear that OP is coming from a place of pettiness and immaturity [/quote] Exactly this. You can say no because you are inflexible and don’t want kids at your house. You can say no because you don’t like these relatives and feel resentful towards them. You can say no because these parents are horrible people. You can say no for all of these reasons. OP included all of this because she not only wants to say no but also wants a pat on the back for saying no. Of course these no car seat using raging alcoholics come off poorly. But so does OP[/quote]
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