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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, my DH had an emotional affair. It was devastating, and it wasn’t nearly as awful as what your DH did. We are still together, and it took more than a year for me to recover from the affair. [b]6 weeks is nothing![/b] Why would you expect to be feeling better yet?

I highly recommend survivinginfidelity.com if your goal is reconciliation. You will get good btdt advice there.

Take good care of yourself. [/quote]

It's like a pregnancy. 6 weeks post-affair = still bleeding, dazed, and wondering how TF you got here.

DH and I lived apart for 2 years after his affair. Once reconciliation was on the table, we did several months of therapy before we lived together again. We were very close to finalizing our divorce. We spent a ton of money on two households and two lawyers. And I still wouldn't do that part any differently!

OP, you've had NO distance from this at all. Please take your time and take care of yourself. You don't HAVE to reconcile right now. You don't HAVE to divorce right now. This is a process and you may find you feel much differently in a few months.[/quote]

What does “reconciliation was on the table” mean? Was that when DH agreed to return?[/quote]

When she finally agreed to try.[/quote]

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