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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you ever feel bad for the spouse (and/or kids)?  How did you reconcile entering someone else’s family like that.

Did you wish he/she would divorce or die so in your mind you could end up with them?

I’ve heard some really awful things from OW so just wondering anonymously what let you cross that line?  
He’s the one that can’t keep his D in his pants…
I got hit in a lot by married co-workers and others and my mind always went to their wife.  I never wanted to do that to another woman, even ones I didn’t know. If things got heated, I’d distance and put up a wall.  Things just don’t happen….[/quote]

[b]When I begin relationship with a married man, I don't enter someone else's family. I enter into a relationship with this one man.  [/b]No, I don't wish that he get a divorce as I have no intent to get married.

OP, your post is written with a presumption that everyone has the line drawn at the same place. This is not true. Adultery is a sin in Christianity, but for many like me who were raised in an atheist country, it is not a big deal. Very soon family will not be sacred in the US too considering the overall movement, so I anticipate that the line will move too. 
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You’d be mistaken.  When the wife finds out and confronts you, you now are part of her life and you will be part of their life going forward.  You are helping to create collateral damage.

Why can’t you find single men? Something is clearly wrong with you for continually seeking out relationships with married men.[/quote][/quote]

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