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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband has been asking me for the past year to move to a new state. We have 2 elementary school aged children, we have an established life where we are socially, and we both have great jobs. I like where we are and the life we have here. He wants to move to a more conservative area where we don’t know anyone and neither of us have a job. I have zero interest in moving. He announced during dinner last night that he is planning on going by himself to get set up and the kids and I can follow him soon after. This is the first time it has hit me that this might just be the end of our marriage. I know I need to find a lawyer, but what sort of legal advice should I be considering to[b] keep my house and full custody of my kids?[/b] Wouldn’t his leaving be abandonment? What sorts of things should I be documenting?[/quote] [b]How do you figure this will be happening?[/b][/quote] Thank you family law attorney. How do people figure this *won't* be happening? Kids may go see Dad for summers but if dude up and moves to Kansas or Ohio or wherever he thinks he can escape pronoun discussions (fewer places every day), the law doesn't say well gee kids, better pack. Breadwinner or not, people don't get to uniformly upend their family's life because they go MAGA in middle age, ethically or legally.[/quote]
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