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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All these 2nd wives have no idea that if they die 1st their money will go to the adult children from his 1st marriage and only a portion will go to their own child.[/quote] Why would you assume that?[/quote] so you are cool with your retirement going to his kids if you die early due to cancer. All that money goes to your H, then passes to all his heirs. That is what you want for your child? To share the money you earned your whole life to go to kids from his 1st marriage?[/quote] With retirement accounts, you set who they will go to. So, if your husband decides they go to the first kids, that's his choice. Ours are set up where they go to the spouse, then our kids if both of us die. Simple. If there are minor kids, the money should be used to care for all minor kids first. [/quote]
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