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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a woman in a great marriage for 25 years, and gave been birth WOHM and SAHM.  All of these women claiming to know no happy marriages or only one or two must just hang out with low quality, unhappy people.  Virtually every couple in know - from our neighborhood, the kids’ schools, my workplace,  growing up - is content in their marriage.  Well more than half of these marriages involve both spouses working.  Sometimes, it just really is you that is the problem.[/quote]

I bet the women you know could not support themselves divorced. I do not have the time to hang out with people. I work a lot: I was married. It was awful. Double the work while he skated along at home. Women with demanding careers are likely unlike people you know…you do not know what is going on in others marriages. Our neighbors are still shocked we divorced. It looked perfect. It was awful. [/quote]

I am with you here, PP. My marriage to exH looked picture perfect on Facebook page, and many were jealous. Nobody saw how I was trying to put my child to bed while he was partying in the kitchen with his executive friends, loudly talking and all drunk (and God forbid me going there ask to be quieter - you hate my friends scene would follow afterwards!). Nobody saw it was only me doing exercises with our autistic child rushing back home from work, while he was booking a boat to sail with mistress in Greece. And so on. He also raped me during our separation (walked into shower, held my neck, and performed rough backdoor s..x), and wouldn't sign property settlement agreement out of anger I wouldn't f...k him voluntary anymore. Screamed he would kill me and I would be working at Walmart. Only holding that assault against him prevented the forced sale of a business that I built from the scratch, thanks to my family attorneys. My marriage was a living hell and I barely made it out alive.

What you think is a picture perfect marriage is often not like that behind the walls. [/quote]

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