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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your parents are so helpful, why don’t they help you with money for a house?  Your husband’s concerns about his brother are very valid.[/quote]

OP here.  They have already helped us with the down payment on my current house.  I could ask them for money from a trust for the next house, but because they are very fair people, they would also insist on making distributions of the same amount to my brothers.  I don't really want them to do that--mainly because one brother has a serious gold digger wife who is also abusive and the infusions of cash over the years have only serve to keep her in the marriage.[/quote]

OP, what's your plan for your BIL's care?[/quote]

It’s not OP’s role to plan for BIL’s care. Her DH and MIL need to come up with something that would work for their family. Every single post on DCUM talking about IL issues always tell the poster to stay out of it and let the spouse and their family handle it.  [/quote]

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