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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s always about $.  My ex had an AP that thought she was going to be taken care of. She didn’t work and her husband wasn’t a high earner.  She saw out lifestyle and thought it was her ticket to the good life.  Joke was on her when she blew up her marriage only after finding out all the $ came from me.  And, then when it was out in the open he didn’t want to be with her anyway.  Last I heard was she had to get some minimum wage service job. [/quote]

I was a long term AP and did not care about or want his $. I loved him. Would have been fine with him giving his wife everything (which IMO she deserved under the circumstances) and starting over in whatever situation that meant. Probably moving to a LOCL area like a college town. I work and do okay enough for myself & whatever he could make before aging out would have been a bonus. They had a great life that she deserved to keep. Except that her DH was an incorrigible cheater. [/quote]

Why would you want to live this way? I just don't get it. [/quote]

I love how she thinks she is so kind and benevolent towards the wife😅 letting her keep HER OWN things/$ while she moves with the husband to a college town. Talk about strings.  Man, what a fantasy world she created in her mind.  And she admits the guy was an “incorrigible cheater”. It goes to show how all these ow harbor ill-will and want to end marriages.  Though this one thinks she’s not so bad because instead of wishing death or a terminal illness on the wife she lets her keep everything while she rides off into the sunset with her husband. Such an active imagination. And, the wife has no idea she is a starring character or that ow even exists. It’s creepy AF.

Some real whack jobs.  [/quote]

I found that the most unsettling- that some woman was fixated on me like that and scouring the internet (and his phone when ex left it around) to find info about me for years that I didn’t know she existed. Someone praying for you to fail or harm to come to you, just an obstacle they need to remove.  It’s like you had an arrow on your back or some psycho beatch was out there putting pins in a voodoo doll. Someone blowing negative energy your way and dissecting you with her girlfriends.  Creepy AF, indeed.  And I was so pissed, as a person that values privacy, that my kids and I were potentially exposed to a bunny burner and some crazy beatch knew anything about my kids and me.[/quote]

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