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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In some cultures and subcultures people send money and that is very thoughtful.  In some cultures people bring food, send flowers or send gift cards for restaurants.

I think there is no right or wrong. Attend the funeral if you can or send a thoughtful card. If you have a photograph or memory of the deceased you can share it in the card.  What is important is that you show your support to the bereaved family. [/quote]

This. I’m from a working class family, and my dad died unexpectedly when I was 19. There were still 2 younger siblings at home, and my mom did not make a lot of money. I would never critique the expressions of sympathy people sent us. We were all just grateful enough that Dad was remembered. Was it hard? Yes. Would more money have helped? Yes. But swapping out a floral arrangement for $50 wasn’t going to save us. That being said, some people did send money, and that was helpful for funeral costs. At the end of the day, we were grateful for any kindness extended. Being grateful, looking for the best in people -that is what my Dad taught us.[/quote]

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