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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are women so quick to judge women rather than a society that doesn't help working mothers thrive? The opt-out is real. [/quote] Not everybody in this thread is a woman.[/quote] Okay, revised for you. :roll: >> Why are women and MEN so quick to judge women rather than a society that doesn't help working mothers thrive? The opt-out is real. Although TBH a thread about WOHM hating SAHM or *checks notes* believe they are parasites, really isn't inclusive of men. [/quote] I'm the one using the term parasite. I'm a man. Keep trying.[/quote] WOW! Low earning men or men from LMC/MC dysfunctional families are the only ones who call SAHMs parasites. :puke:[/quote] In my experience, most of my high earning friends whose wives are still at home full time after the kids are at school full time, carry some level of resentment. It’s a dirty secret they don’t tell their wives bc no one wants to be the one who ‘forces the woman back to work’ - but it’s a burden that men have carried for - well - ever, and I think many have feelings about it their wives don’t fully realize. It’s just logical though - if you sah and your dh works full time - beyond early childhood - of course he feels resentful! Why would he not. [/quote] Nope. Low class men. So called "high earning friends" are only high earning compared to you. :lol: [/quote] One of these is an equity partner at a big 4 (so that is big money), one is in m&a, one is fed. I am about between all in salary. It happens. You just don’t want to think it happens [/quote] :lol: No, it doesn't. And if it does, it is with the bro kind of White dudes. [/quote] It makes a lot more sense that many men might feel resentful that they have to work and that their partner stays home, than makes sense they wouldn’t feel this way. White, bro, Black, Hispanic - whatever. Natural human instinct that deserves to be acknowledged and empathized with [/quote]
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