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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If someone makes a good-faith attempt at hosting, the only polite response is something along the lines of “Thank you for having us.” If a relative wants things her way, she can host. Simple as. Also, I don’t do things for people who complain. Hated the meal? Then I’m not inviting you back to insult me again.[/quote]

OP here, thank you! It’s not like I put bags of Doritos (!!!) out and called it good. There were hot and cold options, a mix of dips, mini sandwiches, meatballs, taquitos, cheese balls, salad, ham and cheese roll ups, charcuterie and I’m not even sure what else at this point. Not to mention multiple desserts. And drinks for everyone.

Personally,  I hate a Turkey dinner. Despise it. But I would never, ever complain about it because I understand the effort that was put into it and someone opened their home to me.

Also, I know the food wasn’t the real issue since our family has done this before (including other people hosting that weren’t me). [/quote]

It sounds like a dream meal to me, especially if I was bringing my finicky kids. Let them pick what they want and call it a day. No sitting around a stuffy table whining about how they don't want green beans and turkey. Thank you!

I want to know more about your sister. What's her deal? Is she normally like this? I would apologize to her. Over apologize, even. Like, I can't believe I made SUCH a faux pas, how gauche of me. I should have known I would f something up, you're always so much better at this kind of stuff. Then let her feel smug and move on. You already know you went above and beyond so who cares? Let her and her shriveled heart live a small life. [/quote]

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