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Read this poster who commented after you: men get invested financially in women and dates they like. It’s the men’s world. Yes, if a guy wants me to split the check my conclusion is he doesn’t find me hot so no point continue seeing him. [/quote]

This is also known as prostitution[/quote]

You need to read up on prostitution, which is exchanging physical favors for money. Being treated to dinner by a date is, get ready, accepting a gesture of kindness and hospitality from a potential partner.  There is no implication of an obligation and the kind of guy who thinks there is is the kind of guy who doesn’t get a second date. [/quote]

What are these guys complaining about, really? Are they unhappy about not offered sex or second dates? A normal woman would never pick Black Salt for first few dates. It’s usually just a mid day coffee at Starbucks for me, then (if there is a second date) a tapas place (lunch again as I don’t commit my weekends for early dates). If there is a third date usually it’s a man I like in “that sense”. He will certainly be made aware of my interest in many ways and won’t feel used.

Men shouldn’t try so hard to impress with expensive restaurants right away, to avoid disappointments. Or just allow for “dating budget” and consider it an investment in finding the right partner. [/quote]

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